Baby Schwartz Update

Hi all!

We're at 26 weeks this week.  Baby Schwartz sure is growing up fast!  I am now officially out of all my regular pants.  I'll admit to wearing Dave's shorts most days that I don't have to go out in public.  :)  Here's an updated belly picture that we took yesterday.  Had to laugh again, because we decided it was best to take it outside, in the sun, hence my squinty face again.  Next month will need to remember to do an indoor shot!  It's so cool to feel the little life moving around inside of my belly.  Surreal still sometimes.  And the weeks are just flying by.  Just a few more months to go!  We can't wait!

26 weeks baby belly

Next week we are starting our HypnoBirthing birth classes.  This is the natural birth method we have decided to go with.  I'll be combining it a little bit with the Bradley technique, and they go very well together.  We finally decided on HypnoBirthing for the sheer fact that it focuses on teaching mom (me) how to relax thru the labor, making it safe and easy for both mom and baby.  I've got to say, relaxing is one of my weaknesses, especially when having to work hard at something, so that was my #1 deciding factor on going with HypnoBirthing.  And if you haven't heard of HB before, just know it's not actually "hypnosis," as the name may suggest.  I won't be hypnotized or anything during the birth.  But it's the art of getting your mind to the state of self hypnosis (the super relaxed feeling you have just before you drift off to sleep).  We all enter this state multiple times per day (when we day dream).  Our classes will focus on teaching me how to control my enter and exit into that state of mind while still being in control of my body functions.  It's pretty exciting stuff!  So much more goes in to it, but that's the basis of the philosophy, used for hundreds of years!

For all of you Minnesotans who have been emailing asking for updates and wondering what baby items we need, well I'm finally getting this out to you!  Now please don't feel like you need to get us anything.  You'll see the list below, we have been so so blessed already with numerous items for baby.  What we need is simply your love and support thru the pregnancy and birth!  I love getting your emails and sharing the little parts of the amazing experience of pregnancy with you.  It's great to feel so connected to you all even when we're so far away.  xo!!

What we have:
We've been so extremely blessed with new friends with big hearts both in Orlando area and Charlotte, as well as old friends in Minneapolis.  We have been given some great items in perfect condition that moms were ready to part with.  Wanted to post the list here, in one central place, so everyone is on the same page.  We already have -

Pack-n-Play with sleeper attachment
Car seat/stroller combo
Baby swing
Bumbo
Boppy pillow
Winter jacket/snow suit
Shopping cart cover
Dirty diaper bin
Bouncer chair
Moby wrap (baby carrier)
Set of cloth diaper
Plenty of newborn size caps and mits
Plenty of bibs
and most likely going to get a glider chair from someone on Craigslist

So, as you can see, we have a lot of the big items already.  We are so grateful for all of the support.  Thank you to all who have donated to our family!  We will keep the baby tithing circle going!

What we need:

CLICK HERE TO VIEW REGISTRY

Check our baby registry at Amazon.com.  What I love about Amazon is that you have the ability to check something off if you found it somewhere else.  So please please, our goal is not to get a bunch of gifts or have a ton of money spent on our baby.  We much prefer to have used or borrowed items, not only to cut costs, but our way of staying green.  If you don't mind helping us by keeping an eye out at garage sales, consignment stores, or asking friends if they have any of the items similar to what's on our Amazon list for sale, we would much appreciate it!  If you do find something for us, go ahead on the list and click the "Buying this gift elsewhere" link.  Thanks guys!!  We will happily reimburse the cost and shipping!

Clothes...!  This is something we're not putting on our registry.  Hoping to acquire all used clothes either from garage sales or second hand stores, or a family who is willing to give or lend to us.  Since we are doing an all-natural pregnancy and birth, we are waiting to find out if it's a boy or girl.  So hold off for now and picking out dresses or a lot of pinks or blues!  We're all for neutrals, purple, green, orange, yellow, brown...  Or in general waiting to get clothes for baby until after the birth and we know if it's a He or She.

We will appreciate:

Marshall's gift card
Amazon.com gift card
Harris Teeter gift card

Dave says hi to everyone reading this!  He's doing well both personally and professionally.  His start up is going great.  Most every day we're out at a community event of some sort meeting people and spreading the word of what we do at Family Healing Chiropractic.  His practice is growing and we're so happy to finally be settling into what we've been planning for so long.

I've got to say though, this North Carolina heat is brutal!  It's been 4 straight days of 90 degree weather.  At least humidity hasn't been too bad.  I don't know if it's just because we're used to Michigan/Minnesota summers, but we can't stand to be outside more than an hour!  Monday was brutal...we were at a 10 hour Memorial Day fundraiser event at a local band shell park.  At least we had the shade of our pop-up tent!   Besides the heat in general that day, let me just say it was no fun being pregnant, having to go to the bathroom every at least hour, and only having access to a porta-potty in 90+ degree weather.  That pretty much sums up my Memorial Day experience.  ;)

Also at the Memorial Day fundraiser, The Patriot Festival, they opened the day in a pretty amazing way.  Check out this clip.  Two paratroopers who were wounded veterans dove from high above the band shell and landed dead center of a flag marked out on the ground, surrounded by the crowd of people.  I was hoping to find a full video of the jumps, but all the news stations cut down their clips.  We had forgotten to bring our camera with us on Monday..  For Channel 14, the one I linked, the camera guy was standing right next to Dave and me shooting the entire 10 minute jump.  Too bad we didn't make the final cut, haha.  It was quite amazing to see and experience the paratroopers.  The patriotism in the crowd instantly grew stronger when we saw the red smoke streaming from their backs and the three flags drop down, waving thru the sky.  Such a beautiful tribute to all those who have sacrificed for our freedom.

Hope you all had a blessed weekend!  Take care everyone!

Hello from beautiful NC

Well folks, we made it!  We've been here in Charlotte for almost 3 weeks now, hard to believe time has gone by this quickly.  It took us that first week to really get settled in, drive around our south part of town getting to know the streets, and start plugging in to community groups and find a church.  But we've made great progress!

We started our trip up on Good Friday.  Not the most ideal time to be making a move, but with Dave's end date at his clinic in Orlando and start date in North Carolina, we really only had Easter weekend as opportunity for traveling.  The entire trip from Orlando to Charlotte was about 11 hours I think.  Plenty of stops along the way as baby was pushing on my bladder.. Dave didn't like that part so much "Um...Dave, don't get mad (because this is the third time in two hours), but I have to go..again."  "Now?"  "Yeah, like, NOW.  Next place we see, okay?!!"  Good times, good times.

We split our trip into two days, drove about 8 hours to Augusta, Georgia to see Dave's brother Eric and family.  Were able to spend the night with them and part of Saturday morning.  So great to see them again -- I think it had been two years!  Their girls are getting so big, blossoming into little beauties!  On Saturday, we drove the remaining 3 hours straight up to Charlotte.  Beautiful drive as we entered South Carolina and into North Carolina.  We missed the trees!!!!  Let me say, Orlando (Florida in general) just didn't feel like home without the trees!  NC really reminds us of the UP, just a little bit warmer.  And we like that.  ;)

We stopped at Daytona Beach on the drive up to Augusta.

It was beautiful!

For these first few months, we'll be renting a room from a woman just to help us save a little cash as Dave begins his business.  We arrived and met her, got moved in (it only took us a half hour to get all our stuff moved from our car and put away in our room, ha!), then took a drive around the main part of town looking for natural grocery store options.  Unfortunately there aren't many co-ops here, one thing we miss most from Minneapolis.  There is also, surprisingly, no Whole Foods here!  We were shocked!  There is an Earth Fare, which is a small scale Whole Foods.  We'll be seeking out local organic grass fed farmers soon though.  It's been a while since we had some quality meat products, and Dave is sure missing his chicken and beef!  But Earth Fare will do for now.

Now, what else?  Well, probably the most exciting news is that Dave started his practice pretty much immediately after we moved.  As of today, he's about 3 weeks in.  We had Easter Sunday to relax, settle in, and celebrate all the good things God has done for us.  Then, Monday morning we were at the grindstone.  So far everything is going great.  My job is more of the networking stuff from home, setting up local events and community outreach for Dave.  And he's been doing everything else.  That's what I just love about Dave, he's able to go out and get it done.  He's doing awesome and he is SO happy to finally be living his dream.  I am so proud of him.  He is really in his element and already making a mark in Charlotte.  More news to come on this adventure I'm sure!  :)

I must share a sort of funny story about the apartment we're renting a room in.  The woman has a cat, but Dave and I are both very allergic.  She agreed to give the cat away the week before we moved in, since he was a mostly outdoor cat anyway, she wouldn't know the difference.  The only time she let him in was at bedtime.  So, we said "deal."  The apartment is a great opportunity and the rent was too good of a deal to pass up.  So we began our trip up from Orlando.  Well, we were about 2 hours from arriving at her apartment, and she texted us to say she came home from work to find her BOY cat had given birth to five kittens!!!  haha, for a few minutes we didn't know how to react.  We ended up laughing about it. I mean, how hilarious that for a couple years since she got the cat she thought it was a boy.  What a surprise that must have been to come home to!  Wanted to share a few pictures of the absolutely adorable little ones.  It just stinks for us as we're putting up with the cats in the apartment all this time until they're old enough to be given away.  Counting down the days (and so are my sinuses!), but until then we definitely enjoy their cuteness.

Five adorable kittens with mom.  Four grey & white, one black.

They just can't keep away from Dave!

They love to climb on him, but their little claws don't retract yet and get stuck in his mesh pants or shorts.

Precious!  Wish you could hear their "mews."

And, I think that's about it for now.  Oh, a little baby update..  Dave got to feel baby Schwartz kick for the first time tonight!  Very exciting moment.  He's such a proud daddy!!  Everything is going great, he/she is growing by the day.  I told Dave earlier that today was the first time my belly has gotten in my way.  But, I love it, wouldn't have it any other way.  Being pregnant is a really fun experience, such a blessing.  One more week and I'll post my monthly belly pic.  Right now it's looking like a little basketball.  I'm feeling great, just a little tired mid-day which requires (as I tell Dave, hehe) me to nap for an hour or two.  I actually felt it pretty bad this past weekend while we were out at an all-day event both Saturday and Sunday.  No nap either days, and man was I struggling!  So whenever I can get in a few extra zzzz's, it's a good day.

More in a week!

Charlotte, here we come!

Got to post really quick here as I'm running out of time before work!

We've been doing a lot of praying and weighing out our options since January when we found out Baby Schwartz was on the way.  It was either to stay in Florida thru the fall, a bit longer than planned, and open our clinic toward the end of 2011  OR  to leave the Maximized Living training program and seek work else where for a year or two before opening our clinic.  Well, everything has kind of come together week by week.  God was definitely pointing us in a certain direction.  We have decided to leave the ML program for now.  As of THIS FRIDAY we are moving to Charlotte, North Carolina!  Dave has accepted an independent contractor position at a Maximized Living office in Charlotte.  It's a great opportunity for us as Dave will have is own patients and all, but we won't have to pay start up costs of a brand new business.  We are so blessed!  This opportunity will allow us to get on our feet and prepare for baby.  We plan to be in Charlotte about 1-2 years if all goes well.  You can start making plans now for visits.  ;)  North Carolina is a beautiful state!  We'd love to have you!

So this is why I am in such a rush at the moment.  Spent too much time packing, even though I wanted to get this post and a few other things done online before work.  But, we'll get it all done in time.  We always do!

And really quick, here is my first "official" baby belly picture.  I have just entered week 20.  To me, my belly is really big.  Pants don't fit anymore and shirts are all getting tight.  Everyone thinks I'm looking tiny though.  I just keep telling myself God is only going to put inside of me what I can push out.  My baby will be the perfect size for me!  No need for comparison to others.  Mindset is everything when preparing for a healthy birth.  :)

Also here is a picture of the palm tree in our front yard, with house in the back.  We have two palms, but this one was the smaller of the two.  Couldn't get a good picture of the other because it is so tall!  We'll miss the little things of Orlando, but at the same time are happy to be leaving.  We feel much more suited to Charlotte and North Carolina.

We'll write again soon after getting settled in Charlotte!  More soon! :)  OH!!  And we wish you all a very blessed Holy Week and Easter Sunday!!  HE IS RISEN, ALLELUIA!

First summary from Orlando... :)

Why hello friends!

Yes, we are still alive and kickin'!  Actually, quite enjoying our time here in Florida.  A couple of reasons we've been MIA here on our blog for the past few months...#1) our jobs at the Maximized Living clinic are going wonderfully!  While our training is keeping us extremely busy physically, we wouldn't change this life for any other!  Every day we are given the opportunity to help so many people and save their lives.  It is so much more than we could have ever imagined -- can't wait to do this in our own clinic soon!!  Ready to transform lives in Greensboro!! :)

We spend about 20-30 hours each week in the clinic taking care of patients and helping in the office.  Dave and I also go out into the community to volunteer our time for about 20 hours each week, more or less depending on what events we have arranged.  We host a lot of health makeover/nutrition/toxicity/exercise workshops all around Orlando.  Various organizations invite us out (YMCAs, churches, grocery stores, schools, etc) and Dave leads the workshops of their choice.  It's a lot of fun meeting so many great people, and it's a fabulous experience helping each one of them transform their health!  I'll admit my favorite part about doing community events are the ones that have us outside for a few hours on the weekends -- like community festivals or fairs.  Temperatures here in Florida are basically perfect right now, 70's/80's and low humidity!  It's like the U.P. in July, haha!  There are some times that we walk outside and forget it's February/March..

Any time we have left outside the office and community events is spent training on protocols (mostly Dr. Dave's work) and Healing Cuisine (mostly my work).  And for fun, we've still got $1 RedBox DVD rentals and board games (cheap fun, right? haha).

So, on to reason #2 of our preoccupied-ness... The first morning here in Orlando, January 3rd, also our first day of work, we found out we are pregnant!! :)  A great start to our day, an early morning pregnancy test, hehe!  So this reason #2 is probably the more prominent reason why I haven't been so diligent about updating our family blog.  On top of our daily requirements with the clinic, I've also been battling nausea and the extreme need for naps.  I am very happy to say that I am officially into trimester 2, PTL (that's Praise The Lord), so food is going down more easily and my appetite is finally picking up.  Also, baby bump is starting to show!  Pictures to come...  Dave and I are SO EXCITED!!!  We have been waiting 2+ years for baby Schwartz, and finally the time has come.  I'm planning to write a more detailed testimonial of my health on Healing Cuisine about my fertility and health issues over the past few years.  I've not talked to many about this, just close family and a few friends, but I am finally ready to share my story and hope other women will find it as inspiration to seek help outside of drugs and surgery to conceive naturally.  More to come on that, I'll link back the post here when I get it up!

We are planning, as we're calling it, a 100% organic and natural birth!  We had our first appointment with our midwife last week and covered all the basics with her.  Baby is healthy and growing right on schedule.  I have all the normal "symptoms" of pregnancy.. we're healthy and happy.  Still quite a few things to plan out in the coming months to be ready for the birth, but we'll get there!  The biggest question at the moment is where will we live.  We will be doing a home birth, and right now we are living in a small house with 5 other people...the landlady and her daughter who live here speak only Spanish.  Nothing really works in our favor here.  So, trying to figure out if we want to birth baby in Orlando or somewhere else (like North Carolina or in Michigan).  Most likely we'll find a happy home here in Orlando, but who knows what the next few months will bring.  No matter what, we are just putting our complete trust in God!  He's given us our first baby as a complete surprise much sooner than we could have hoped, and we are trusting He knows the best path for us! :)!!

Also, if anyone has questions about natural birthing, why we are doing a home birth, or any questions relating to baby at all, please don't hesitate to email or call.  We look forward to it!  We are, as always, an open door!

At this time, I must give props to Dave who has been taking outstanding care of me for the past two months!!  I've got to admit, food prep and cooking makes me sick to my stomach.  I've had to literally run from the kitchen every time I attempt to make us a meal.  So, Dave has been THE BEST HUSBAND doing all the cooking and meal packing since January!!  Recipes you've seen on my blog, yup, Dave prepared those!!  I don't know what I would do without him!  He's so willing to try, such a blessing! :)  If he doesn't know how to do something, he'll run back into our bedroom and ask how much of this to put in, or what temperature to put the pan on..so sweet.  And let me say, he makes an omelet a thousand times better than me!!  If you ever stay at Hotel Schwartz, you will have to stay for breakfast and enjoy one of Dave's delicious omelets.  Cheese is my personal favorite, but his best is spinach and zucchini with feta!  Mmm, mmm, good!

I'm hoping to get some pictures of our Florida life up on here soon!  We have two palm trees in our front yard, which I think is incredibly cool!  There are also all these weird looking plants everywhere -- they remind us of Jurassic Park.  So, pictures to come next.  You have that to look forward to. ;)

If we haven't thanked you by phone or email yet, THANK YOU for all the cards and love since we moved here!!  Every card and drawing is hanging on our wall.  We have just a tiny room to ourselves, cluttered with our clothes, cooking utensils and pantry items.  The love on the wall really brightens our day, every day!  We appreciate it so so much!  Reminds us of all of you who have touched our lives and who we can never forget! :)  Many blessings to each one of you!